Raising awareness about dementia

About our journey

Our Mum, who sadly passed away on the 26th September 2016, had dementia with Lewy bodies. Dementia is a truly terrible disease that dramatically changes the lives of not only the person living with dementia but their whole family. Since Mum first got ill in around 2009, my life has profoundly changed, as has my whole outlook. As a result of Mum’s illness, I now feel passionate about raising awareness about dementia (see below), to try and add something positive from what has been the worst thing to happen in my life.

A lot of people are still fairly ignorant about dementia. I do not judge, as that was me before Mum got ill. I didn’t really know the difference between dementia and Alzheimer’s. I had never even heard of Lewy body dementia or any of the other rarer forms. I also believed that dementia was mainly about memory loss and wasn’t aware of all the other upsetting and challenging behaviours associated with the disease. And because I wasn’t aware, I wasn’t prepared, and in my view, Mum suffered as a result.

About this website

I started this website during Mum’s illness as a way to deal with the grief that is inevitable with dementia and to share our story, to show that love can endure. I also wanted to share key information that I have learnt along the way, to try and help the millions of others who are also coping with this horrendous disease.

However, I would like to highlight that I am no expert in dementia. Everything on this site is what I have researched following Mum’s illness and what I have experienced firsthand with Mum. I have tried to keep things simple, including only the basic facts but signposting where you can find more help and expert advice. Where possible, I have related to our experiences with Mum, practical tips that we learnt along the way, often the hard way!

Below is a summary of the information available.

I hope you find this website useful and informative and it helps you learn all about dementia. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.

Raising awareness about dementia

To help raise awareness, reduce stigma and promote a dementia-friendly society, I have started the following initiatives.

  • Started a Facebook Page.
  • Written a book ‘Same Destination … Different Journey’ which is the story of our journey with Mum through her illness and the impact it had on our family. The book also includes all the key information that you will need if you or a loved one is affected by dementia with Lewy bodies.
  • Created this website to share basic information about dementia and to share our journey (you can read the story of when Mum first got ill on theour story’ page), the things we struggled with and the things we have learnt along the way.
  • Created a range of designs to raise awareness about dementia. These designs can be added to products, such as t-shirts and bags, provided by Spreadshirt and Amazon. More details can be found on the Shop page.
Raise awareness of dementia
Designed to raise awareness about dementia

Advertising on this website

I want to be completely transparent about the advertising on this website. It costs around £250.00 a year to host this website and to try and cover these costs I have become an Amazon Affiliate. The Amazon Affiliate program is designed to provide a means for sites to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. This means if you click on any of the banners, like the one below, I will earn a commission (of around 13 pence) per item purchased. It is safe to say that the amount of commission earned, does not cover the hosting costs, however every little helps. So if you are planning on buying anything at Amazon, click on the link below!

6 thoughts on “Raising Awareness About Dementia

  1. I have been blessed by coming across your website! I too cared for my mom and an aunt, both have passed away. I facilitate two dementia caregiver support groups and look forward to sharing some of what I have found on your site to help them better understand what is involved in this journey. Is it OK if I use some of your writings and images in presentations for these groups? I will give you credit of course. Please continue to help others, if you are like me, you just can’t help yourself. I have to share what I know.

  2. I have just come across your webpage and so far it is perfect. I love that you are sharing your experiences and the resources that you have found. This is exactly what I wanted to do but had no idea where to start. Very well done, THANK YOU!!!! I hope you don’t mind, I will probably be sharing alot of info from here.

      1. Fantastic information and sorry for your loss, I am currently looking after my father who is coming to the final stages of dementia and is heartbreaking he is anxious and more confused and asking for me to fix him and help him he is becoming more agitated an can be a little aggressive it’s heartbreaking I’m struggling with this

        1. Hi Gill,

          Thanks for the message and I am really sorry to hear about your Dad. Dementia really is a heartbreaking illness especially when, like you say, your loved one is distressed and anxious (which often results in aggressive behaviour) as there are no easy answers. I really struggled throughout Mum’s illness so my thoughts are with you.

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